If a person ever needs to find an example of a true daughter of our heavenly father, they only need to look into the eyes of Ramie. Never a day passes when I don't marvel at the tremendous example she is to not only me but to every life that she comes into contact with. Ramie strives to treat everyone with extreme kindness and can't stand to see anybody hurting.
As a husband, I am totally spoiled to have a spiritual woman in our home that is so devoted to the well-being of our 5 children. Ramie has always been dedicated to being a stay at home mom and has excelled in this capacity. With a single income, sometimes Ramie has to sacrifice some of the fancy things in her life. She is not one concerned with having all the designer clothes or driving expensive cars. Her desire is to make sure she meets the spiritual needs of our children and follow the advice of our prophets. Our children are a reflection of the amazing job that Ramie does in teaching and living the standards of the gospel. When I come home each evening, she always has a smile on her face and the kids are busy doing some type of constructive activity. Sometimes these activities cause the house to somewhat messy, but Ramie is not one that won't allow our children to be creative with the fear of a mess when done.
Over the past 4 months, I have had the responsibility of coaching the high school girls basketball team in Lovell. This has caused some extra time away from the home, which means more stress on my lovely wife. The hardest weeks are the late practice weeks because this means that I don't return home till after 8. The majority of the time I would walk in the door with all the kids quietly sleeping after being tucked in by their caring mother. This task is extremely challenging considering this means 5 children having their homework done, teeth brushed, scriptures read, and having their daily struggles nurtured by Ramie. On top of these responsibilities, Ramie also gracefully hosted 3 team dinners at our house where she prepared the most delicious meals that the team devoured. These team dinners were crucial in trying to build team chemistry amongst the team and gave the girls a chance to interact with each other in a different setting. As silly as it may sound, Ramie's dinners were a huge part of the success of our team this year.
I know that I fail her in so many ways, but Ramie never complains or has a negative attitude towards me. Someday I hope that I can be half the person that Ramie is and repay her for all the heartache I may cause her. Thanks for all you do to make my life what it is and I love you more then words can describe!!
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What a beautiful tribute Chris. I also think that Ramie is truly fabulous!
Ramie~ I have lots of good memories of spending time with you growing up. I always thought you were so beautiful and had such a kind, gentle way about you. I love you Ramie.
What a beautiful tribute! As I watched her sit in Sunday School yesterday with Ava, I thought about what an angel she is. She IS so kind and thoughtful to everyone and a wonderful example of what a mom should be! She was one of the first people that made contact with me when we moved back to Lovell, and she allowed me to bombard her with question after question...I will be forever grateful for her friendship.
Well said Chris!! I LOVE Ramie and I probably love her example the most!! She's truly an inspiration to me in many ways!!
You both deserve much happiness in life!! I think Ramie's probably a pretty lucky person too!!
Congratulations on a State Championship win and a spectacular season. More importantly, congratulations on making a group of girls a TEAM and overcoming the situation you were put into!! GOOD JOB!!
I absolutely adore your little family, keep up the great work! :-)
Couldn't be said any better! What a beautiful tribute!
I think Ramie is an amazing woman! She is the person that potraits motherhood the way it should be and I for one enjoy being in your home (as do my girls!!) and with Ramie. She's amazing! Thanks for your friendship, its treasured:)
You couldn't have said it better! Ramie you are truely an amazing person and I'm grateful for your friendship and your example. Chris you have always been a great friend to me since Junior High and I have enjoyed watching you and Ramie raise such a beautiful family. Hugs to both of you.
Im sitting at work with tears running down my face. I wish we lived a little closer so I could get to know you more than just through your posts, Ramie. And Chris, we always knew you were pretty amazing. What a sweet, sweet post.
I don't think I've ever met Ramie in person...however her posts always inspire me...Thank you for being you Ramie...and good job Chris you picked a good one. And know that behind every good woman is a good man.
WOW! Strength begats strength. Thanks for the great example of love!
You two are both amazing! Very touching to see a husbands love for his wife! You two are great examples! Thanks for your influence on my life.
P.S. Chris you should start life coaching for husbands! This was a touching post. Ramie is lucky to have some one who truly loves and admires her. I think she is one amazing gal. You two deserve each other.
CONGRATS on Winning State, too.
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